Love
A Message on Love, Celibacy, and Honoring Marriage
I see so many young women, and women in general, searching to find a man — often on a man’s terms. Chasing, compromising, shrinking, hoping to be chosen. But I’ve learned this: when you put God first, people come to you. You don’t have to hunt for what God already assigned.
I am celibate for a reason. I believe in marriage and I respect married couples. Marriage is sacred to me because it’s sacred to God. If I ever interact with a married man, I respect the woman first. Not because of man’s rules, but because I follow God’s laws, not man’s laws.
I don’t believe in divorce because it breaks what God joined. I’ve seen what adultery has done and the trauma it causes. It rips families apart. It leaves children confused. It leaves wives wounded. My own father showed me infidelity and cheating. I lived through that pain. I know the price.
So I choose a different way. I choose patience. I choose purity. I choose honor. I choose to wait for covenant, not chaos.
To every woman still searching: You are not forgotten. You are not too much or not enough. When you put God first, He orders your steps — and He orders the steps of the right person toward you. You don’t have to settle for broken just to avoid being alone.
Keep your heart clean. Keep your hands to yourself. Keep God first.
The love you want will not require you to sin to get it.
